A few days ago, Narcissus became separated from his hunter friends and demanded, “Is anyone there?” Echo was unable to say the same thing. He was shocked, and said, “Come here,” Echo repeated. Echo excitedly ran to Narcissus however, he turned away from her, telling her, “Hands off! Let me be dead before you can enjoy the body of my.” Rejected and angry, Echo fled in shame. However, her affection for Narcissus increased.
To to punish Narcissus to transformation health services make him feel less arrogant, Nemesis, the goddess of revenge, casts a curse on Narcissus. When Narcissus was able to see his reflection in the lake of water, a rush of his heart was filled with love. He thought he’d discovered someone who was worthy of his affections and became completely absorbed in his beautiful reflection without realizing that it was really him.
Inability to garner Narcissus to pay attention Echo’s aversion to her role and depressive state increased. As time went by she lost her youthful beauty was swooning for the impossible Narcissus until she sank to the ground with only her echoing voice. He ultimately committed suicide and was consumed by his inexplicably strong lovefor his beloved, and left a beautiful flower to mark his spot.
Understanding Narcissists:
Despite their apparent strength Narcissists are in fact vulnerable under their armor of protection. The control of their feelings as well as of others is crucial since without control they are frightened and feel embarrassed. People are drawn to people who are emotionally expressive and loving who has qualities they do not have. Feelings of vulnerability, including shame or sadness are put in their subconscious. They view them as a source of disdain or any indication of weakness, which triggers the fear of being judged or criticized. So, being depressed or lonely, they trigger the need to be with someone that could make them vulnerable to pain as well as feeling inadequate. They seek to alleviate these feelings of discomfort by showing the courage, independence and strength. These are ideals they associate with.
Narcissists, like the myth, consider themselves superior to others but rely on them to project an image of self-confidence. It’s surprising that most Narcissists are also codependent. They’re extremely all about wellness sensitive to any threat to their belief in being the most successful, and often see slights even when there isn’t any. They are terrified of being seen as fraudulent and having their flaws exposed as well as having their views or authority challenged, or having their self-esteem and pride destroyed. They do whatever they can to boost their image and ward off negative feedback. In their pride, they may be rude and dismissive and even project their flaws onto others, blaming and mocking their peers and unleashing their anger that is narcissistic. The effort to please them is unworthy, as if they are trying to fill a void pit, their own inner depletion. They expect others to be able to fill, but, of course it’s not going to happen.
They can embarrass their family or friends by their pride or uncontrollable attitude of entitlement, like dominating the conversation and causing disruption. To get their desired results, they could be a victim to other people, regardless of consequences. Their behavior is a way to alleviate the subconscious feelings of deprivation and inferiority that become unbearable when they do not have their requirements met or receive particular advantages.
Understanding Echo:
Some people who fall for an narcissist will be Echo however, the ones who remain are a stereotyped codependent who gives up their own needs to be able to help other people. While Narcissus is self-absorbed, Echo is a bit self-absorbed. As with Echo the narcissists’ partners idolize them. They admire and appreciate their bold, assertive, and empowering attitude. They, as opposed to people who are narcissists don’t represent themselves and aren’t apprehensive or ashamed of for expressing needs and desires.
Being kind and considerate create a sense importance and purpose. Because they aren’t worthy of love They don’t think they’ll be appreciated for the person they are, but only for what they contribute or do. In the absence of an independent voice they’re usually passive, docile and self-effacing, believing the message that is spoken to them is what it is. They desire to be loved and accepted, loved by, loved and appreciated. They may not think they have rights, but naturally follow the rules or put the needs of others and desires first, often self-sacrificing to be liked by others. As with Echo This leads them to be dependent on the narcissist even when their desires aren’t met. The narcissist is also able the ability to control, manipulate and profit from them. Narcissists want people they are able to control, and who won’t be a threat to them and make them feel inadequate. In most cases they accept their partners’ responsibility and attempt to understand. They remain to avoid their most feared fear of abandonment and being rejected and losing hope of finding love that lasts. They also stay because they miss often, the attraction, joy and affectionate gestures that initially captivated them return, particularly when there is a possibility of a break-up.
In vain efforts to win approval and remain connected and stay connected, they weave eggshells, afraid of offending their spouse. They are worried about what he or she might be thinking or doing, and get caught up in the relationship. They are required to conform with the narcissists’ icy world and become accustomed to living in a secluded emotional world.
The Narcissistic Relationship:
It’s easy to fall the narcissist’s world. Do not be afraid to give in to their charm, as research has shown that the initial impressions of strangers of narcissists during the first seven interactions are favorable. They’re viewed as attractive, friendly confident, open and well-adjusted. They’re also entertaining. Their captivating performances are designed to earn trust and affection and implying that they will remain attentive. Then, the study subjects realize the flaws in the facade of narcissists’ loveable personalities.
